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What happened to Please and Thank you? Can we blame children and teenagers for their behavior or do we blame the parents? I created this blog to have some open and honest conversations about manners and civility. I am fortunate to have a career that allows me interactions with all types of people and I happen to live in the best city in the world! So follow my blog and see what I experience, and learn some of the important life skills I teach my students young and old. To find out more about me visit my site at www.swannoir.net

Thursday, March 12, 2009

3 Seconds to make a Positive Impression

You walk into the interviewer's office. You are immediately sized up, judged, and evaluated in approximately 3 seconds. No, not fair,but true. So, what can you do to make sure that your initial "exterior" impression is a good one.
Let's start from top to bottom~

HAIR- Ladies: Your hair should be shoulder length or shorter in order to convey a positive professional image. Wear hair pulled back away from the eyes. Consider a neat bun or ponytail if you have longer hair. Men: Splurge on a chic haircut and avoid hair that covers your ears. Your facial hair should be neatly shaven, preferably beardless. Keep your brows neat and trimmed.

FACE- Ladies: Less equals more. Unless you are a Broadway actress, keep the makeup to a minimum. Breeze by the Saks counter and get some good advice on what looks good on you. Keep it subtle. Men: A clean shaven face, again no beards.

ACCESSORIES- Ladies: Earrings should be studs or pearls,no bigger than a dime. One bracelet and a conservative watch. Men: Fine quality cuff links, and a watch.

HYGIENE- The general rule for Ladies and Gentlemen is no perfume or cologne. Do not take the chance that the interviewer suffers from allergies or will be overwhelmed by your fragrance. Ladies be mindful of scented lotions as well. Nails neat and manicured. Teeth, pearly white and fresh breath. Breath spray or a breath mint. Absolutely no gum.

CLOTHING- Ladies: A conservative dark colored suit. If it is a skirt suit, hemline should be at or just above the knee. Hosiery should be new, no runs or snags. You may want to pack an extra pair in your purse, just in case. Stay away from trendy colors or fashions straight from the runway. Unless you are looking for a job in the fashion industry, remain conservative. Add a classic silk scarf or pin if you want a little flair. Men: A dark colored tailored suit. French cuffs for your cuff links, a quality leather belt, and a eye-catching silk tie.

SHOES- This may be the most important part of the whole package. Shoes speak volumes, good shoes say that you care about yourself and your appearance. Ladies: Stilettos have no business in the corporate world. Your pumps should look polished and new, the heels should not be worn. If your budget doesn't allow you to own styles by Chanel and Jimmy Choo, get to know your shoemaker. Men: Laced up shoes are the the most conservative. Save the slip ons, or shoes with tassels for after you are hired. Socks should be knee length and in good condition, so if you do cross your legs, no skin or hair is exposed.

Now you are prepared to make that 3 Second Positive First Impression. A quote from Abe Lincoln says it all. "Give me six hours to chop down a tree, and I will spend the first four sharpening the axe."

Bon Chance!

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